17 Unique Japanese Traditions and Cultural Facts

Updated May 1, 2020
Japanese family making dinner

What's important to Japanese culture is a mix of old and new beliefs, traditions, and customs. There is an art, reason, and historical purpose to explain how things are conducted in families and society, making Japanese culture unique. From tea ceremonies to flower arranging, these customs will give you a taste of Japanese traditions.

Basic Japanese Culture and Customs

While Japan is considered one country, it's actually made up of nearly 7,000 islands. Japanese beliefs, customs, and culture are all fairly complex, but a basic understanding of what's important to Japanese people can help you better understand Japanese families.

Core Japanese Values

Why is culture important? It's because it's the most important Japanese cultural and family values revolve around working together and living in peace. Some of the biggest Japanese values are:

  • Interdependence
  • Harmony
  • Politeness
  • Respect
  • Formality

Bowing, Formalities, and Showing Respect

Formalities are important in Japanese culture. How you address others is a sign of respect and reverence in Japan. This is evident through body language and speech.

  • Greeting someone with a bow, for example, is comparable to shaking someone's hand in the U.S. There are even several types of bowing.
  • The eshaku is a semi-formal bow used for greetings and meeting new people. It involves bowing at a 15-degree angle.
  • The saikeirei bow is a 45-degree angle bow used for showing the highest form of respect.
  • In terms of language, Japanese people address individuals according to age, gender, and relationship, where older people or clients and customers require more formal speech.
  • Unless you have a casual relationship (such as between friends or with a child), adhere to appropriate formal titles by using san or sama after a Japanese person's last name.

Japanese Language

Old Japanese, or "Kanbun," is the ancient version of the Japanese language. The modern Japanese language actually includes three different alphabets. One of the more popular alphabets is called Katakan, and is a phonetic alphabet used for foreign words that's influenced by Western cultures.

Japanese Religions

Shinto and Buddhism are the two main religions in Japan. Although Christianity exists there, Buddhism is the religion most Japanese people align with.

  • Religion in Japan is viewed as more of a moral code than a doctrine that is preached.
  • It's a way of life for most Japanese people that is not separate from their social and cultural values.
  • In Japan there is a complete separation of religion and state, which makes religious practices private, family affairs.
  • Shintoism involves the belief that every living thing found in nature contains gods, or kami.
  • Buddhism is more concerned with the soul and the afterlife.

Flower Arranging

Ikebana is more than just flower arranging. The Japanese people view it as an important religious art form. Although it's been around for seven centuries, it continues to be practiced today. There are about 3,000 ikebana schools in Japan. All tend to emphasize the importance of simplicity, harmony and nature.

Ikebana, flower arrangement

General Japanese Family Traditions and Culture

Japanese families change with the times, but many traditional values and practices remain.

Japanese Family Structure

The traditional family unit in Japan consists of a mother, father, and their children. This type of family group is called Kazoku. Traditionally, three-generation households were the norm, with adult children living with their parents and their own husband and kids.

Japanese Naming

The Japanese place such a high value on familial relations that they often call people by their surnames, or last names. The Japanese don't usually give their children middle names, and only use first names within their own household.

Coming of Age Ceremonies

Family visits to shrines are the standard activity for several coming of age ceremonies in Japanese culture. After a birth, at ages 3, 5, 7, and 20, families will accompany their children, who are often dressed in traditional Japanese dress like a kimono, to shrines.

Urban Life

Most Japanese people live in urban settings. This means many families live in small homes. Because of their emphasis on business and small homes, many Japanese families rarely entertain guests in their home, but rather do all their entertaining at public restaurants.

Family Roles

Families take their work and school very seriously. Men are typically working breadwinners, while women focus on caretaking and managing family finances. Kids attend school and have a close affiliation with their school.

Joyful mother and baby girl

Love Matches

While the traditional arranged marriage, or miai-kekkon, still happens in Japan, it's being slowly replaced by the love match. This is where a family friend or relative serves as the go-between to get two people together.

Japanese Food and Dining Traditions

The Japanese take great pride in their local, regional, and seasonal foods. You'll find families eating lots of fresh foods and fish in traditional ways.

Public Dining Etiquette

Unlike in the United States, eating at a traditional Japanese restaurant or home often requires you to remove your shoes and sit on tatami or straw floors. It's customary to wait until all parties have received their order before eating.

  • You'll often hear Japanese people saying, "itadakimasu," a polite phrase showing appreciation as you receive the meal and "gochigochisōsama deshita" as a thank you once you've finished eating.
  • When drinking, filling a friend's glass before yours is considered polite behavior.
  • While finishing every last grain of rice and noisily slurping your meal (noodles especially) may be considered rude in America, in Japan, it's a sign you're enjoying and not wasting your food.

Japanese Tea Ceremony

To the Japanese, the traditional tea ceremony is an important cultural and ritual art form, which takes a host or hostess years to master. Steeped in Zen Buddhism, it focuses on living in the moment. Students who want to learn the art may also take lessons in poetry, art, and pottery. A formal tea ceremony lasts about four hours. Guests must wash their hands and mouths with water before entering the tea room to symbolize purification. They are served a simple meal, two servings of tea, and sweets. Conversation is centered on the utensils and decoration used in the ceremony.

Tea ceremony

Japanese Holiday Traditions and Festivals

Traditional Japanese holidays and festivals include a variety of celebrations that focus on family.

New Year

The Japanese New Year celebration lasts from January 1st to the 3rd. During this time, Japanese families will take trips to visit the graves of ancestors and pray for these deceased relatives. To ensure luck for the coming year, many Japanese people will make a visit to a shrine during the New Year celebration.

Matsuri Festivals

A matsuri is a festival closely connected to shrines, which are often affiliated with Shintoism. These festivals deal with cultivating rice and the spiritual well-being of the whole community. Parades are a common way to celebrate a matsuri.


O-Bon takes place in mid-August and is a Buddhist celebration. During this time, the Japanese believe the spirits of their deceased ancestors visit the living. This is another important holiday where families make trips to the graves of ancestors. At the end of the celebration, people float lanterns into nearby waterways to help guide the spirits home.

Giving Gifts

Historically, omiyage, or souvenirs, were brought back from pilgrimages to shrines as a way to pass on religious blessings. Where Americans may bring home souvenirs to remind them of their trip, Japanese people purchase food produced in the area they're visiting to bring home for friends and family.

Modern Japanese Culture

If you want to learn more about Japanese culture in general, you can explore Japanese fashion trends and even Japanese ghost stories. Whether you're planning a trip to Japan, or just fascinated by this unique culture, learning about Japan is fun and informative.

17 Unique Japanese Traditions and Cultural Facts