How to Attract a Sagittarius Man: 12 Keys to His Heart

If your heart is set on a Sagittarian man, you're in for a challenge.

Updated January 4, 2020
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Affectionately known as the bachelors of the zodiac, Sagittarian men hate being tied down. They are seekers, philosophers, idealists, comics, and grand adventurers whose lives are about wisdom, beauty, and fun. A Sagittarian man is always on the move, seeing new places and meeting new people - they have friends galore. So, what are the keys to winning a free-spirited Sagittarian man's heart?

What Attracts a Sagittarian Man

Sagittarian men are attracted to independent free spirits who are friendly, intelligent, playful, challenging, and courageous enough to join him on his limitless adventures - intellectually, metaphorically, and physically.

Before capturing a Sagittarian's heart, you'll need to catch his attention for more than a moment. Remember that he's always on the move and can quickly become bored and move on from someone who doesn't intrigue and challenge him. A Sagittarius man is driven by the passion of the moment.

  • Use whatever physical assets you have to intrigue him. Play up your eyes, dress to entice - but stay true to your personal style - and smile.
  • A Sagittarian man likes to talk. Still, don't become too deeply immersed in his conversational abilities. Intrigue him, don't engage him fully. Leave things unsaid and questions unanswered, so he has something to ponder.
  • Let your attention drift and challenge a Sagittarian man to vie for your attention.

How to Attract a Sagittarian Man

You have his attention, and he's asked you out. Still, capturing a Sagittarian man's attention is one thing. Dating a Sagittarian and capturing his heart is quite another.

1. Be Mysterious

A Sagittarian man needs to feel that getting to know you is akin to solving a great mystery. Reveal yourself in layers such that he never feels he knows you thoroughly. He'll appreciate the "you" he sees and knows and will always be fascinated and wonder about the side he can't see.

2. Have a Sense of Humor

A good sense of humor is often an essential key to a Sagittarius man's heart. He has a sense of humor that's often witty and ridiculous. He can find something humorous in most situations. So, laugh with him and don't be afraid to laugh at him, because he'll probably be laughing at you.

3. Be a Good Audience

Never try to dominate a conversation - be willing to shut up and listen. A Sagittarian man loves to talk, and he's thrilled if you give him an appreciative audience.

4. Don't Spoil His Fun

Never be needy, clingy, jealous, controlling, or demanding. A Sagittarian man is a friendly guy who wants to be out and about as much as possible, so don't spoil his fun. Attempting to harness a free-spirited Sagittarius man will get you nowhere.

5. Challenge Him

Only sometimes, be available. A Sagittarian man thrives on the challenge of a chase. If you're too available, compliant, and agreeable, you're more likely to inspire boredom than awe. Embrace your free spirit and give him plenty of room to breathe and time to wonder and long for you.

6. Go, Do, and Travel With Him

Go, do, and travel with him when he asks you. Trust that he's a free-spirited, independent man who doesn't mind going alone and then recounting everything he's done. Invite him to join you on your adventures, but don't sulk if he doesn't join you - just go, have fun, and share your stories with him.

7. Show Your Independence

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Keep your friends and social life. Yes, this man will appreciate you having your own life. He's not jealous or possessive and will love that you're just as independent as he is.

8. Be Happy and Playful

He's a happy dancing soul, so don't rain on his parade by being a "Debbie Downer." Keep your conversations happy, hopeful, helpful, and enjoyable.

9. Take an Interest in His Interests

Find out all you can about his interests so you can take part or talk intelligently about them. A Sagittarius man craves someone who shares his interests, and you'll fascinate him when you do.

10. Enjoy His Sexy Side

He's a fiery, sexy guy, so don't be coy or shy about sex - be playful and enjoy! He'll even appreciate your bravery if you make the first move. Don't expect to be romanced, but enjoy being entertained by his wild sexual antics.

11. Be Patient

A Sagittarian man is quick to fall in love but slow to commit. Love him, have fun with him, and give your heart to him. But be patient, understanding, and loving, and don't push for exclusivity.

12. Be Honest

Be honest and truthful; even if it hurts, tell it like it is! A Sagittarius man is truthful and honest, usually blatantly honest, and he'll expect the same from you.

Keeping a Sagittarian Man Engaged

Keeping a Sagittarian man content and engaged takes fun, playful, loving interaction, intellectual conversations, and spontaneous adventures. A Sagittarius man is not compatible with everyone. So, if you have your eye on one, evaluate your strengths and see if a fun, social, and globe-trotting life with a high-flyin' Sagittarian man is really what you're looking for.

How to Attract a Sagittarius Man: 12 Keys to His Heart